The Real Game

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@therealgame·25m

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@therealgame·25m

why state is everything with women

Women see reality through an emotional feeling lens.

How they feel determines how they interpret reality, literally in the most total sense.

So for example, if you put them in a great state then slam them down or tease them, guess what happens?

They love it and play along.

If you put them in a bad state and LITERALLY do/say the same exact things, guess what happens?

They hate it and disqualify you.

And this state forming happens well before the first date actually occurs.

It happens when you're texting her, setting up plans, approaching her, etc.

She's subconsciously forming the state she feels towards YOU, and this will determine how hard you can push or tease and actually create desire through this tension.

OR, those same behaviors will lead her to feel pissed off and annoyed.

And so what we must understand about how to generate great states is this:

Women are mirrors to your energy.

If you're in a subconscious turmoil state, you will generate more of the same in women.

If you approach with lots of anxiety and nerves, they will get nervous.

Disarming and easy conversation creates a state of trust.

We want to show her that we are normal as soon as possible, so they let down their guard.

Women have a humungous wall up with all men until they feel like you're normal.

Trusting you're normal inducing a great state of comfort, which allows for us to introduce tension.

There's are just a few, but there are many more ways to create ideal states.

J - The Real Game

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@therealgame·1d

when you combine the inner work and the outer game, you become unstoppable.

Peak state + modern up to date strategies = success.

Which is exactly what my coaching clients do and the results speak for themselves:

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@therealgame·1d

owning that she wants you is CRUCIAL (screenshot example)

let me breakdown why it's so crucial to walk, talk, and act like you know women want you, and exactly why this increases primal desire.

Most men in the world are very polite, very timid, very gay.

They've been hammered their entire life by society to be humble, crucified even by their peers and family if they were confident and knew their greatness.

It's a pretty unfortunate reality, and it festers into their dating lives with women.

Because of this conditioning, men stray away from leaning in and doubling down on knowing when a woman wants him.

As a result, he never embraces the cocky guy women do truly love.

Here's an example of that, repeatedly:

Obviously, the nuance depends on the girl and the vibe you have with her.

But I saw her last week for the first time, and I just slam tease her constantly that she's in love with me.

Literally not once do I ever flirt with her directly, am super sweet or kind, say good morning, none of that.

I literally tell her you're obsessed with me I get it NONSTOP.

This is a woman's true love language.

Confident guy that knows he's superior and she wants him, submissive needy weasel little girl.

That's the dynamic.

Learn the real game.

J - TRG

@therealgame·2d

How to Spot the Beliefs Holding You Back With Women

https://youtu.be/XxcwK0ZXKOs

@therealgame·2d

Coaching Prices Increase on Friday

This Friday, coaching prices across all tiers is increasing, and I wanted to make sure you were aware of that.

This includes in-persons, groups, 1-1's remotely, all of it.

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@therealgame·3d

does TRG only work on party girls?

I got a comment on a recent youtube video I filmed and it made me laugh my ass off.

And actually sparked the idea to elaborate on it because it's a great thing to clarify, especially given how nuanced dating is.

So I recently made a video about finding the sweet spot between nice guy and asshole with women.

The premise being, you need to be flexible. Playful yet masculine.

And this is the comment I received, and let me elaborate on my response:

Some people may see my content and the way I preach my philosophy around women, dating, behavior, etc. and think that only works on certain girls.

Or only works short term, etc.

And to extra clarify why this isn't the case, I've had multiple women in long term relationships propose to me/give me ultimatums about getting married, which ended 2 of the relationships.

So to think TRG isn't effective in creating love/bonds/connections is psychotic, and here is why.

Bonds, loyalty, submission, etc. are created entirely differently between men and women.

And I'm talking so far beyond just a casual hook up.

I'm talking having a girl look you in your eyes and say she would kill somebody for you and not be joking (I've had this happen to me).

And so how did she (and others) get to such an insane point of long term desire?

It's because on a deep primal level all women are the same.

And all women build bonds differently than men do.

We build long term bonds from a more logical frame of mind.

They build them through emotional feelings.

Feelings of power and superiority that we possess as men gives them feelings of comfort, stability, attraction, desire.

Feelings of excitement and mystery give them feelings of arousal, joy, purpose.

Those feelings in us would give us anxiety, discomfort, no attraction etc.

Do you see?

How we get them to a peak state of submission and love and desire for us is entirely different than how they get us there for them.

And there in lies the confusion for 99% of men that can't see past their own psychology.

Learn the real game, and free your mind.

J - The Real Game

@therealgame·4d

no tension, no desire

1-1 clients text me in real time to calibrate themselves with their responses and ways of communicating with women

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@therealgame·5d

she left her first date for me (story time)

Who remembers this girl from a recent newsletter that said they were busy and to try again next weekend?

Well, she's back.

So I randomly decide to go to this 5 star expensive restaurant after the gym last night.

After I check in I go to the bathroom, and as I'm going, I see a girl on a date with a guy that looked just like her.

Mind you, I've never met her so I wasn't certain, but I thought it was her.

Obviously, I said nothing, and of course I get a text from her a few hours later:

I didn't even respond to the first text, just reacted, so of course she double texted me.

Obviously, miserable on her date and thinking about me the entire time because I triggered primal desire by walking away and this guy is taking her to a 5 star very expensive first date dinner.

Then:

I sent her a pic of my place and said that, and she keep reiterating how terrible the date is going, because why else would she be texting me.

So I invite her off, honestly just to see if this would happen, and she calls me the second the date ends.

We talked for roughly 15 minutes, I gave her a ridiculous amount of shit about the date, her behavior, being difficult, wishing it was me on the date, you name it.

I cooked her hibachi style while simultaneously laughing my ass off because this is hilarious.

Of course, she's getting aroused by the second.

At the end of the call she decides to of course, come over.

First time meeting her, straight over, after she LITERALLY was just on a first date where the guy flew in from across the country (not joking), drove 2+ hours, and spent easily $400+ on her.

And all he got was a hug.

She even pulled up the texts he was sending her and showed them to me.

Super nice and excited, accommodating, high effort, texted her IMMEDIATELY when he got home saying it was so much fun and he wants to see her again soon.

While I'm laying pipe and staring at his texts.

Imagine?

You guys have to learn super super crucial lessons from this, so this doesn't happen to you.

First, the more effort you put in the less they respect you and look for reasons to DQ you.

His spend, his texting, his accommodating.

She told me she knew it was over 5 min in, but she actually knew way before that because of his behavior (she even tried to cancel last minute but felt bad).

Second, walking away creates more primal desire than any first date ever could.

Would she have chased me and called me if I didn't walk away? Never.

Third, go to lala land.

She told me they argued about politics on the date - WTF?

He works in politics and was passionate about it apparently, what a nuclear mistake to her state.

Fourth, women are ruthless to men like this.

She literally told me she wished we went to the bathroom mid date and fucked.

I'm not exaggerating.

ZERO REGARD FOR HIS TIME/SPEND/ATTENTION/EFFORT.

Zero.

Because it all boils down to how you make them feel and nothing else matters.

J - The Real Game