Your parent never apologized. You will. This playbook shows you how.
8 fully scripted repair scenarios for the moments after you yell, go cold, need to be right, or scare someone you love. Each scenario includes the trigger, the wrong move (your parent’s pattern), the exact repair script, and the timeline.
5 tabs:
— Welcome: philosophy and instructions
— Decision Tree: go from “something just happened” to the right scenario in 30 seconds
— Scenarios: 8 complete repair scripts with triggers, wrong moves, words, and timing
— Repair Log: track every slip and whether you chose the Shame Cycle or the Repair Cycle
— Dashboard: live formulas tracking your repair rate per scenario and overall progress
Scenarios include: yelling at your kid, freezing out your partner, exploding at family, needing to be right with friends, death glare, sarcasm, slipping in front of your child, and public incidents.
Works in Microsoft Excel and Google Sheets.
Part of The Cycle Breaker System.