The route decision comes before everything else — K-1 or IR1/CR1 spousal. A plain-language guide with eligibility self-checks, a K-1 vs. spousal decision matrix, the full K-1 sequence through the 90 days and adjustment of status, and a document-and-cost readiness checklist. Includes a 2026 update on the interview-stage changes and a first-person note from the author — a former immigration officer who went through the K-1 process himself — on the tradeoff no form asks about.

Filing the wrong petition is one of the most expensive mistakes in marriage immigration. This book answers the question that comes before all the paperwork: which route should you take?

Inside:

• Eligibility self-checks: marriage status, where you plan to marry, in-person meeting requirement, legal freedom to marry.
• The full K-1 sequence: Form I-129F, consular interview paper trail, the 90 days after admission, adjustment of status (I-485).
• The spousal route: Form I-130 through the IR1/CR1 immigrant visa process.
• “The Decision That Isn’t on Any Form”: the author’s first-person note on the real-life tradeoff — faster K-1 vs. family present at the wedding.
• 2026 Update: social media vetting expanded to K visas (March 2026) and the end of interview waivers.
• K-1 vs. spousal decision matrix + document-and-cost readiness checklist.

By a former immigration officer who went through the K-1 process himself with his Peruvian wife. Plain language, responsibly caveated — not legal advice. 66 pages, PDF.