Relationships are kind of like your teeth if you don’t brush them everyday they kind of start to fall out your head. I know that was a gross analogy but it is the same concept. If you maintain an open mind, healthy practices and boundaries with your partner happiness and healthy relationships become like second nature. So flossing your teeth would be like removing your old judgments and bias that caused conflict in your relationship. Brushing your teeth would be like you are now open and actually enjoying yourself and your partner. You are not associated actions or emotions with your past experiences. Proper guidance and coaching is essential to building a strong beautiful loving and healthy connection with your partner. Once you know how to ground yourself well and not let your actions and emotions become jaded towards your relationship you will become happier and successful, so will your partner. Truth and seeing yourself in the mirror about certain behaviors is necessary.