Know Your Rights โ What the Law Actually Says About Fathers
Most fathers going through separation don't even know what the law says about their rights. That ends today.
The Care of Children Act 2004 is clear - both parents have rights and responsibilities. A relationship ending does not mean your role as a father ends. It is not a one-way street.
Here are some key things every father needs to know:
๐ Guardianship is equal. Both parents are guardians of their children. That means you have an equal say in major decisions - education, medical care, religion, name changes, and where your tamariki live.
๐ Children have the right to a relationship with both parents. The law recognises that ongoing contact with both parents is in the best interest of the child. No one gets to take that away because they're angry.
๐ Day-to-day care is not ownership. Even if your children primarily live with one parent, it does not strip the other parent of their guardianship rights or their voice.
๐ You do not need a court order to be a parent. Your rights exist from the moment your child is born. You don't need permission to be their father.
See the screenshot attached - straight from the legislation. Read it. Screenshot it. Share it with every brother who needs to see it.
This is why the NOMB Parental Agreement Template exists. It's built on these rights. It gives you the confidence to understand what you're entitled to and structure an agreement that protects your relationship with your tamariki.
It's time to take your mana back.
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โ๏ธ DISCLAIMER: This post is for educational and informational purposes only. It does not constitute legal advice and does not create an attorney-client relationship. Laws vary by jurisdiction and individual circumstances. We strongly recommend consulting with a licensed family law professional in your area for advice specific to your situation. NOMB and its creator are not responsible for any outcomes resulting from reliance on this information.

