A practical ebook for parents who want to stop preschooler hitting while staying calm, clear, and physically safe. You will learn how to notice the ten seconds before a swing, recognize your own alarm signals, choose a safer position, block contact, and say a firm limit without shouting, threatening, or retaliating. The guide follows a five-stage response for moving from the first warning sign through the tantrum and into repair. It also helps you understand common patterns around denied requests, transitions, tiredness, frustration, and overstimulation so you can respond to the sequence instead of reacting only to the latest hit. Use the Before, During, After Map to study what happened, practice the Parent Alarm Reset, and plan the next safe minute with space and supervision. The final chapter shows how repair can strengthen your next response. This digital ebook is designed for parents of preschoolers who want concrete boundary-setting strategies for tantrums and defiance without turning every incident into a shouting match.