A practical 30-day framework for second-time brides to avoid repeating old patterns and enter engagement with written agreements — not vague assumptions.
What you receive with instant PDF access:
• The Full Ebook — Chapter 1: "Name The Pattern, Not The Promise." Chapter 2: "Sort The Questions Before The Ring." Plus values, money, roles, children, conflict handling, decision timing, and scripts for naming concerns without sounding accusatory.
• The Seven-Question Pre-Engagement Agreement — Seven direct questions that must have clear, written answers before any proposal.
• The 30-Day Reset Plan — Week-by-week structure from pattern recognition to a completed written agreement.
• The Traffic-Light Sorting System — Categorize every marriage term as green (settled), yellow (needs conversation), or red (must be resolved before engagement).
• The Decision Tree — A step-by-step logic map for knowing when you have enough clarity to say yes.
• The Script Bank — Word-for-word scripts for the hardest conversations: money, children, holidays, housing, in-laws, and conflict patterns.
This is not a relationship self-help book. It is a framework for defining marriage terms before engagement.