Most co-parenting apps get this backwards.

They ask you to hand over your whole calendar so your ex can "see your schedule." That means every therapy appointment, work meeting, and date night title now sits in front of someone you specifically don't want that from.

The fix isn't a fancier calendar — it's sharing less data, not more:

• Share free/busy blocks only. Never event titles, locations, or guest lists.

• Merge work + personal + co-parenting calendars into ONE view for yourself, so you never double-book a custody handoff against a work trip.

• Give your co-parent a link that shows availability, not content.

I built Multi-Calendar Clash around exactly this — one merged, clash-free schedule for you, and a privacy-safe availability view for the people who need to coordinate around it. If you're navigating custody scheduling and tired of choosing between chaos and oversharing, come take a look.