Start here: calmer toddler transitions in three steps
Now & Next helps you move your toddler from play to getting dressed, coming to a meal and leaving home, with fewer repeated warnings.
Observe one ordinary day: where does each transition start to stick?
Plan a short cue that names the next thing, a small choice where both answers work for you, and a first step your toddler can see.
Practice for 14 days and change one thing at a time.
The eBook and the phone app that walks you through it: https://whop.com/now-next/toddler-transitions
General guidance for everyday routines, not medical advice.