From first meet to close in 90 minutes, because when you follow the TRG playbook, it works:

From first meet to close in 90 minutes, because when you follow the TRG playbook, it works:

keeping her engaged is a skillset, here's how
Retention, is, EVERYTHING.
If you cannot keep her engaged long term, and have her respect you more as time goes on, there is zero point in even dating.
All of this upfront time and energy will be wasted if you continuously fumble any woman you want to keep in your life.
And the sad reality is, most guys think the game is over when it's actually just beginning.
Let's analyze this snippet of a screenshot of a conversation I just had with this girl I'm seeing.
For some context, we hungout for the first time last Monday (escalated) and this was on Saturday.
As you can see without divulging all of the information about the conversation, it was extremely casual.
I wasn't responding to her much (busy + TRG) and so we were basically just catching up briefly about what we both did the last few days.
Then, out of the blue and unprompted, she expresses that she misses me and my kisses.
And so on the surface, this look meaningless.
But the lesson is ginormous.
You cannot behave the way she does, vocalize your interest, flirt directly, etc. and expect her to maintain desire and respect long term.
It is literally impossible based on psychology.
The only behavior that is aligned with their psyche is to be unimpressed, nonchalant, and them pursuing you.
There is zero equality in the world of dating, women, or relationships.
J - The Real Game
P.S. New Youtube: Why You Lose Your Confidence Around Women You Actually Want

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Now, story time.
When you flip the power dynamics and create leverage, dating is EASY.
You can genuinely boil female desire down to a science.
And when you do that, you can create repeatable formulas that simply work (OF COURSE not all the time, but highly likely).
Let's take a recent example of this on the dating apps.
I was talking to this girl, and based on her texting behavior and bio, I knew she was wild.
Wild girls love bold cocky assholes EVEN MORE than normal girls do.
Look at what I said to her:
Without stating the obvious, what did I do just here on a psychological level?
First, I demonstrated immense amount of abundance in a couple different ways.
Yes, in vocalizing I have other women, but also in not attempting to even make plans with her on Monday.
I literally just said I have dates till then, and let her emotions spike without walking back my bold move.
All of my behavior is completely aligned with primal needs from women, so she responds accordingly.
I don't care, I have options, I have abundance, and she means nothing to me.
So, she wants me.
J - The Real Game

It's what I teach my 1-1 coaching clients, and they're winning because of it, see for yourself:
https://youtube.com/shorts/Df8NMxvbeMM?feature=share
how to handle the guy friend shit test
Real quick, reminder to bang your assistant, it's on her vision board:
The guy friend is a tricky one, and it depends on the context of the situation.
Let's breakdown how to actually handle this, and when to give grace and when to bounce.
Every red pill guy on planet earth will tell you that it's a hard rule breaker and to never tolerate it.
And while I absolutely agree, it's how you execute the conditioning that makes all the difference.
For example, if you've been seeing a girl for a few weeks and she tells you this, simply saying ok bye isn't advantageous.
There is 100% a way for you to retain her and solve this problem.
Most guys nuke it and just end it abruptly, that's stupid.
For one thing, if she had him around before you, don't take it personally.
Obviously, if it's a new guy friend, exit.
But let's say she's been "friends" with him for years, and you're 2 weeks in.
For one thing, never act emotionally bothered on the spot.
Playfully tease her about them having a past and be super nonjudgemental, because that will be the only thing that gets the truth out.
Obviously, if she admits to a past, exit.
If she doesn't admit to a past (could still be lying), then take a long term nurture approach.
Because here's the brutal truth about women, they will do ANYTHING for a guy they want.
Which includes, cutting people off.
So you simply need to increase her desire and respect for you.
When that happens, she'll block him, and you win.
Change state, reframe perspectives, increase desire, you can do whatever you want.

1-1 coaching clients continue to win, without changing their looks/money/status
It's simply how you're playing the game

when you get good, it's so damn easy (story time)
First, new youtube for my successful guys, a very in-depth presentation.
It breaks down dating like a business and shows you exactly how to improve systematically: You Can Make Money, But You Can't Attract Women.
Now, one of the worst parts about sucking with women and dating is how hard it is to get crumbs.
You put in tons of effort, time, money, etc. and get almost nothing in return.
This is why a lot of men are completely giving up at an alarming rate.
But on the flip side of sucking, when you finally get good, is quite literally the easiest dating life possible.
I know this sounds challenging to believe, but when you actually master TRG, you put in less effort, and get better results.
Here's exactly how it works with a story to anchor it:
I was with a new girl that potentially is going to be my personal assistant yesterday.
It was the first time we met, and even though it's a professional atmosphere, the principles of TRG are all the same.
Spike emotions, don't care, create tension, aura, etc.
After she finished her work and clocked out, she ended up staying the night.
You can put two and two together.
I met her a few hours prior, talked to her here and there (she was working 95% of the time), and we seamlessly escalated to intimacy.
I genuinely wasn't even trying.
How?
When most guys are starving for an ounce of attention let alone intimacy?
It's simple - when you stack inner game and outer game, rooted in female psychology, you literally can't lose.
You can't lose because I've reverse engineered women over my 15 years of experience to such a degree that I can on command press the emotional trigger points that cause desire.
Yes, it is quite literally that predictable and repeatable.
After I trigger them, desire is formed, every time.
Which allows me (because it's become second nature) to not try and have women on command.
J - The Real Game

Coaching client winning. They're from 25-60+, all around the world.
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90 minute match to close (story time)
These opportunities exist when you master the real game.
And it's not some random luck one-off, I've done this numerous times.
The truth of the matter is, there are EXTREMELY horny women walking around that are just waiting for a guy that gets it to subtly seduce them.
They are more than ready.
Let me breakdown exactly how this happened and how you can replicate the TRG way.
Time stamps to further prove efficiency.
Number one, my profile across apps is dialed.
My pictures are created by reverse engineer how women think and making mating decisions, I'm not kidding.
Your images should be designed to speak specifically to the psychology of how women view your images.
If they're not, you will stand ZERO chance, and give up.
Secondly, my texting ability is on point, striking emotion while showing I don't care.
Your ability to text COMPLETELY creates the perception in their mind of your value and worth.
Because it either generates, or doesn't generate, the emotional feelings they want.
If it doesn't, you're invisible.
If it does, you're highly valuable and desirable.
So I text, especially in these blitzkrieg situations, with no unforced errors.
I'm not getting excited, I'm not talking about sex, I'm not complimenting, I'm not even FLIRTING.
I'm simply calibrated and owning my shit.
J - The Real Game


Dating apps are one of the most viable ways you can increase your abundance.
And no matter what end outcome you want with dating, VOLUME and QUALITY is crucial to achieving your end result.
So whether it's to be a playboy or to get married, you need to be cranking your volume.
Dating apps are instrumental to this, and not to mention, online presence IN GENERAL is vital for all of dating success.
Let me breakdown a recent case study of my 59 year old 1-1 coaching client that has become overwhelmed with the amount of women wanting to see him.
Listen here.
And like he said in the video, he's NEVER had any success online, so what changed.
Number one, we drastically adjusted his images.
My client, and all my others, are very successful.
But they ALWAYS come to me looking homeless online.
Your online presentation and images should match or surpass the actual value you possess in real life.
If they don't, you stand no chance.
So we fixed where he was in his images, how his face looked, his outfits, his body language, the lighting, the venues, all of it.
The second piece was profile optimization.
Bios, prompts, answers, stimulating emotions, all of it so we can get more inbound messages and increase our leverage instantly.
Third, TEXTING.
This is crucial.
Your ability to text, specifically when it comes to the online game, literally shapes their perception of your value and worth.
Having him understand how to text in a way that INSTANTLY separates him from all of her other matches, and skyrocket how she perceives his worth, 10xed his responses over night.
As a result, he's genuinely overwhelmed, and he's about to turn 60.
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J - The Real Game