The Real Game

cold approach elevator pull with her mom (story time)

There is quite literally never a bad time to go for it with a woman.

Even in the presence of her own mother.

So recently I was waiting in the elevator and this girl and her mother walked in.

They were both talking with accents so I immediately used my context based opener I teach in social edge mastery.

They were super friendly and lit up and started talking about their recent trip to Australia (where they're from) and how it was.

What's CRUCIAL in a cold approach is being attuned and calibrated to when to pivot topics.

You CANNOT run a point of conversation forever, everything has its shelf life.

After australia talked, we started talking about the elevators and the issues that are ongoing.

What I've always found is if you can find a common enemy, person or thing, it increases your bond.

And I'm not even kidding, mid to end of the conversation in front of a packed elevator including a homosexual chinese man (yes this detail matters) I told her to give me her Instagram.

Putting it all on the line in front of everybody around me.

Of course, she said yes, and then I teased her about her username and her mother chimed in that she's extra, the entire family was involved.

Then I touched base after leveraging the common enemy to increase initial conversational fluidity and momentum to spike emotions.

Another day in the office, TRG style.

Literally every single day you wake up and go outside, you are LOSING OPPORTUNITIES.

Your inner and outer game need to be optimized so you can stop fumbling women all around you and start seizing the moment and the chances you get.

That is the integral foundation of how I coach successful men to transform their dating lives, forever.

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J - The Real Game

you must go through an unlearning process, of beliefs and behavior

it's how my coaching clients are able to have the dating life they always wanted, ABUNDANCE:

This 1-1 coaching client just went 2 for 2 last week on dates and closes, let's go. 

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how women ACTUALLY want to be spoken to (screenshot)

Every guy has it so wrong.

They truly think women want romance and sweet sweet talky talky.

You're gay.

Let me show you how women ACTUALLY want to be talked to and communicated with.

In this recent example, I swiped up on a girl I hooked up with awhile back.

Here's what I said:

I told her I hit that when she posts a bikini picture.

NOT wow I miss you you're so beautiful! You're so pretty wow love you.

GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY!

I told her I hit that like I checked off a to do list item like taking the trash out.

How does she respond?

Smiley, giddy, in her literal divine feminine.

This is ALL women, you must relearn your understanding of how they operate.

Treat them like a disposable plate, and they love you forever.

J - The Real Game

P.S. New youtube banger: Trying To Connect With Women Turns Them OFF (Here's Why) - https://youtu.be/Wa4iVO64ihw

can being open/honest attract better women?

I saw this post recently on Twitter/X and it sparked the conversation in my mind, and it's extremely important to fully internalize what I'm about to tell you.

See post below:

So the question is, does being pure hearted, open, and honest help you attract healed pure women?

Of course not, and here's why.

And if you don't fully internalize this, mark my words, you will get destroyed by women.

I'm not exaggerating.

Guys think game only applies to unhealed damaged women.

They truly think good girls or virgins don't need games, and they'll just love you unconditionally forever for you being good to them.

WRONG.

First - could you see differences INITIALLY with how a hoe vs a virgin responds to your openness? Sure.

But here's the deal, on a long enough time horizon ANY WOMAN, virgin or hoe, will need STIMULATION.

Emotions IS their form of oxygen.

And unfortunately for you, being open and pure hearted provides ZERO emotional stimulation for women.

And you can NEVER be under the illusion that a better girl will require less games.

This is when guys lower their guard, get comfortable and fat, listen to women, and get divorced.

​Your insurance policy on that happening is a masters degree in female psychology.​

Master it and learn it and protect yourself and THEM for downfall.

J - The Real Game

NEVER reciprocate her flirting (example)

I saw this on Twitter recently and it's such an important aspect of dating to talk about.

Reciprocation, but especially when there is flirting involved early on.

So this guy posts a screenshot of a bumble conversation, where the dynamic went south in milliseconds, see attached.

So the question becomes, what did he do wrong to get such a nose dive situation?

From LITERALLY high interest lead to bombed - let me explain.

First off, if a girls flirting or complimenting you, NEVER GIVE IT BACK.

It goes from adoring a guy to being disgusted.

Secondly, insinuating sex the same day with a wink is quite literally suicide.

Just pack it up man because you're a kamikaze pilot.

Women NEVER want sex to be spoken about or insinuated before being intimate with you.

It is the quickest way to destroy ANY DYNAMIC OR SITUATION.

The PROPER way to handle situations like these is to own it, continue that dynamic, and refuse to reciprocate.

Another lead fumbled because of a lack of understanding female psychology.

Thankfully for my coaching clients like Jake here, they have their PHD's from TRG University and they are dominating modern dating with ease.

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J - The Real Game

extreme example of retention and power dynamics

First, new youtube speaking on a MASSIVE inner game problem 99% of men have: The Secret Internal Block Destroying Female Desire (Not What You Think)

https://youtu.be/i6n50v1G0BQ

As a reminder, the inner work will set you FREE.

Now, retention and power dynamics.

You must eradicate your mind from any beliefs that reinforce equality or putting a woman above you.

It's a complete lose lose and goes against nature.

Every single behavior she does to you, you should NOT do to her.

Let me give you a rather radical example of this girl I see on and off:

If I communicated this way with her or any other woman I'd be locked up in a cell for harassment.

But when a woman does it, IT'S HER DIVINE FEMININE.

And the ONLY reason she's pursuing me, and misses me so much, is because of how I behave.

It's because I act and behave like her superior that she treats me like one.

And the craziest thing about this is, this is good for her.

Yes, correct, this is healthy.

Why?

Because I am stimulating INSANE amounts of emotions, which creates her peak state.

Emotions are not COMFORT, POSITIVITY, LOVE AND BLISS.

They are mystery, tension, power dynamics, etc. that truly fulfill and pleasure a woman.

Reprogram your mind and give them what they NEED.

J - The Real Game

And quick coaching client wins prefacing the power of inner work leading to REAL results in his dating life, let's go.

You have NO IDEA how much you are internally surpressing your natural magnetism, that you can UNLEASH via inner work.

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rage baiting is every woman's love language (explained)

If you're an older gentleman who hasn't heard of this term I will attach it here: 

Rage baiting is an online tactic where someone posts inflammatory, offensive, or frustrating content solely to make people angry and force a reaction.

And the reason I am explaining this is because I went crazy viral last night responding to a post, I'll attach it below:

As you can see, he opens and instigates the rage baiting.

He pokes fun at her and clowns her, which by and large is GOOD.

Then, she returns the favor and his back at him, this is GREAT.

The issue is most men see this and think she hates him, she's actually FLIRTING WITH HIM.

Most guys are so conditioned and programmed to see this logically, as in positive = positive negative = negative.

WITH WOMEN IT'S ALL BACKWARDS.

And guys stray away from ANY tension because of their logical mind.

And the problem is that TENSION, that NEGATIVITY, is literally the catalyst for her desiring you, as in the example above.

Lean in, clear out your inner work, rid yourself of hesitancy, and unleash your rage baiting antics and create tension.

J - The Real Game

more coaching clients winning, because of course they are. 

Proven strategies equals proven success, duh

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why she WILL try to make you a loser

Aren't these weasels just lovely?

Yes - women will try and change you over time.

These changes typically always lead to you becoming a loser.

Here's the breakdown of why:

One of the biggest problems guys have when it comes to maintaining interest is they change and adapt over time.

They lose their aura and energy of the guy she started dating.

Typically because he wanted to make her happy and so she listened to her.

And SHE told him to hangout with her more, eat all this food, skip the gym, etc. to spend time with her.

Then she looks up months or years later and sees a loser, gets repulsed, and leaves.

And yes, she baited him into this change entirely.

Now the REASON she tries to mold you into a loser has a couple different angles.

Angle one - women make decisions based on emotional whims without being able to see the big picture.

Emotional whim - wanting attention.

External behavior - begging him to stay home to spend time with her.

BIG PICTURE RAMIFICATIONS SHE CAN'T SEE - hatred for a lazy guy that follows her lead.

But in the moment, slave to emotion. She's her on wort enemy.

Another angle - women test for reassurance.

Women, being weasels, are high anxiety and high insecurity creatures.

And they don't find reassurance to their negative emotions directly, that would be too boring and uninteresting.

So they elect to test you to attempt and gain the reassurance.

You don't see it as a test, so you say yes, and now you're a loser.

There are more in-depth angles I breakdown in this video, watch and go study: She Will Try To Make You Into a Loser​ - https://youtu.be/J8VRGBw0B-Q

J - The Real Game