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DefaultProfile picture@defaultmode·Jul 2
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DefaultProfile picture@defaultmode·Jun 29

Love bombing always precedes devaluation.


The intensity of the idealization is proportional to how far the fall will be.

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DefaultProfile picture@defaultmode·Jun 17

Guilt that arrives before you've done anything wrong is manufactured.

Notice who manufactures it — and why.

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DefaultProfile picture@defaultmode·Jun 15

The red flag isn't the bad behavior.

It's the perfect explanation that follows it.

Every time.

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DefaultProfile picture@defaultmode·Jun 12
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DefaultProfile picture@defaultmode·Jun 11

People don't trust competence.

They trust consistency.

Those are not the same thing.

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DefaultProfile picture@defaultmode·Jun 10

Whoever defines the problem controls the solution.

Get to the frame before the argument starts.

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DefaultProfile picture@defaultmode·Jun 9
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DefaultProfile picture@defaultmode·Jun 8

The most dangerous assumption:

It’s you are immune to the things you’ve studied.

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pitsteelerslovr@pitsteelerslovr·Jun 8

Join up for crazy profit

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DefaultProfile picture@defaultmode·Jun 7

Confidence isn't the absence of doubt.

It's acting before doubt becomes an excuse.