The Boundary Vault is an ebook and a phone app with 130 situation cards. Each card covers one common situation with a young child and tells you exactly what to say and what to do, in words you can use right away.

Most parents know what they want.
They do not have the words when it happens.
When your child throws the plate or hits you, you have about ten seconds to respond. Most parents do not have a ready answer for those ten seconds, so they explain, then warn, then yell, then give in.

The Boundary Vault gives you a ready answer for each of these moments: one sentence to say and one thing to do.