Welcome.
I am so glad you've found your way here!
Can I share with you why I created these eBooks? (Available here: https://whop.com/fig-leaf-store/products/)
I did it because secret p*rn use is a MASSIVE problem, even in church-going families.
Nobody is talking about this taboo subject, so we put on our Sunday best and the Enemy continues having his way with our families.
In these eBooks, I cite a 2022 study in which 73% of teens, ages 13-17, report viewing porn.
With the proliferation of cell phones and algorithms that cater to every demographic imaginable, we--males especially--are being literally being targeted for it. The leap from a suggestive image to the real thing is just a few clicks away, by design.
And can you even imagine what would happen if the topic was addressed from the front of the sanctuary on a Sunday morning? I imagine it going something like this:
"Today, I want to talk to you about a sin that is impacting almost every family in our church. It is keeping us from enjoying the abundant life that our God intends for His children. This particular sin has been so effective in destroying families because it is done in the dark. In secret.
The sin I am speaking of is p*rn. (An uncomfortable hush is felt in the sanctuary.)
Raise your hand if you believe God will judge America harshly because we create and consume so much of this filth. (All hands are raised.)
Now raise your hand if you believe our God hates sin, all sin, because it keeps us in bondage and prevents us from freely having a relationship with Him and others. (All hands go up, again.)
And raise your hand if you believe this sin needs to be brought to the light so that those who are affected by it might be freed from it. (Almost all hands go up.)
And if 73% of our teenagers have admitted to viewing it, raise your hand if you believe it is impacting your neighbors, your co-workers, and the friends of your children. (Slightly fewer hands go up.)
And if 73% of our teens are viewing it, raise your hand if you believe the numbers are just about the same, whether your family attends church or not. (Slightly fewer hands go up.)
Now, let me ask you to look at the ten or so people sitting in your row. If these numbers are to be believed, seven of you have viewed porn recently. (Reactions range from uncomfortable laughs to being scared poopless.)
And look up here. If this church has about 10 people on staff, and about 10 people in leadership, please know we are not immune to this, either.
How are you feeling right now?" (A dropped pin could be heard.)
I believe if the above scene ever played out, two things would happen: 1) attendance at a church like this would drop SIGNIFICANTLY the following week, and 2) the families that stayed would be transformed because they were courageous enough to come out from hiding and deal with the problem.
Well, since the above scene will NOT be played out all across this land, these eBooks have been created for the church-going family. Specifically, for moms and wives who are courageous enough to stop living in a bliss that is the result of ignorance of the epidemic that is secret porn use.
Instead of awkwardly asking a friend, family member, or church staff--and if the commitment of professional counseling sessions is not an option for you at this time--these Bible-inspired and grace-filled eBooks are a timely first step for you.
Far from promoting an adversarial or score-keeping-until-you-earn-your-way-back relationship with your husband or son, these eBooks remind you who you are and Whos you are, and they equip you to move forward with compassion and hope.
With you and for you,
Adrian