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@therealgame·1dhandling height shit tests (screenshots)
TO PREFACE - the context of the dynamic between you and her will heavily determine how you handle the shit test.
There is NOT a one size fits all simply because different severities call for different recourses.
Let me show you the screenshots and then I'll break it down.
To provide context on how I handled it in such a manner:
This is also the same girl from before via bumble.
And to preface, we've talked lightly here and there over the past few days and have made plans.
She's coming straight over. I would put her interest at very high.
Important context as you see how I handled this.
-you can even see her high interest with how she framed the shit test, including the emoji means shes being playful and doesnt actually care VS if you got this early on from a girl that isnt at this interest level, it would be more pressing you on it and not being playful
-i explicitly told her its not a big deal and im happy to walk away now if it matters
-i said fuck how much do you weigh to flip the frame and put the "gun" on her now, she laughed-threw in hurling her (sexual desire, playful) and then added a recent vid of me lifting as another sexual innuendo (again, this works bc she's high interest)
She responded as expected-then i left her on read for a day, shit test won.
You have to be a MASTER at reading texts and their subtle cues so you know exactly how to handle each situation the best way.
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@therealgame·2drecent 1-1 coaching client win.
He interacted with her pre TRG and got ghosted, NOW because of TRG and the inner work, she's completely in his frame and he has the power - not at the mercy of hers.
That's how you can shift the power dynamics when you learn TRG, see all of the proof here - https://therealgame.kinsta.cloud/does-it-work/
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@therealgame·2dexactly how she should act post date (screenshot)
I think this is crucial to understand so you can get a direct indicator on how the date actually went, which generally speaking confuses the shit out of guys.
Think about it - if a date went well, she should be extremely high interest and desire and not afraid to show it (in her own quirky way).
Because let's think on a macro scale - women don't get high desire for basically anybody, despite the fact that they have ENDLESS "options."
Why?
Because those options don't understand TRG, haven't done the inner work, and aren't oozing aura.
So when they come across a man that does, it's genuinely like they met their savior.
And so yes interest should be extremely high.
Example A:
What this post date text demonstrates in terms of high interest level:
-texted me first (I told her to, but complying solidifies frame)
-multiple t's in her text - yes how they spell matters and demonstrates their interest level. the more formal and punctuation they use the less they like you
-sent me a kissy face selfie with her rack in it - dick me down again I had so much fun don't forget about me
She didn't have to do any of this, she could've just said hey made it, or whatever.
And THAT would've told me medium interest.
No message at all when I told her to let me know?
Extremely low interest.
Women speak in clues, and you have to be a master at reading these clues below the surface so you can understand how to improve your own skills.
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@therealgame·3da reminder that inner work has the power to change your entire life, straight from a 1-1 coaching clients POV:
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@therealgame·3dmaneuvering REAL shit tests from a model (screenshots)
Mind you, how I handle them is a RESULT of my inner and outer game in complete alignment.
INNER - don't care about the outcome, know she's replaceable, know I"m superior, know she loves it - and I mean I INTERNALIZE these beliefs, they are me at my core
They're not just some things I think I should know.
OUTER - women need tension, text her in a way that fights fire with fire, be low effort, etc.
They must be at peak performance to do this with 24 year old models.
Anyways, I handled roughly 5 shit tests within 10 minutes of interacting with this girl, it's just the nature of women.
Some are more compliant than others, but I'm prepped enough to handle even the most combative, because I see beyond their mask of "toughness" LOL.
CONTEXT: matched on bumble, actually had a call with her basically right after matching (don't usually tell guys to do this), and texted her right after for her IG.
These texts are POST phone call.
Mind you - my IG is on my bumble profile.
Here's the interaction and then I'll break it down:
To be honest, I could break this down easily for an hour on sub communication cues, little triggers, the psychology behind it all, but here are key pointers:
-gave her a nickname from phone call rapport, which triggers her being a little girl not a grown adult (frame, tension, desire)
-she tested me about wanting her IG, so I trolled her when she tried to flip it on me by saying my name is jamarqius (she can't put me in a corner)
-called her out for adding friction (I'm not a naive idiot that doesn't know women)
-trolled her for being able to read because she went back to my profile and found it
-slammed her down AGAIN for not being able to win against sleep (context from phone call)
-she finally, submits
This is a GLIMPSE into what actually is going down with every single piece of communication you have with women that LITERALLY makes or breaks desire and respect.
Your margin of error, especially with a girl like this, is zero.
The difficulty is HARDER, you must be elite at having this level of perception.
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@therealgame·4dhandling disobedience on any scale (screenshot)
You have to develop SPIDEY LIKE SENSES when a woman is not being compliant or disobedient.
1 text in, 1 decade in - it's crucial.
If you don't pick up on it and behave accordingly, she'll start to think you're stupid, naive, and she can control you.
And then she will for fun, and then resent you for it, and then leave.
Does that sound enjoyable to you?
Of course not, so READ her behavior between the lines.
Some context - matched with this girl, started texting her and told her to send me a pic for her contact.
Then she sent a meme (noncompliance) so I went on the offense, see below:
To the untrained eye, this is nothing.
Stupid playful banter with women.
But look deeper.
I made a very specific request which she "gave" with a troll.
If I accepted it without resistance or friction or genuinely fighting back with trolling, she thinks I'm a loser.
This is how meticulous the game is beyond the surface and how it affects power dynamics.
Now, I'm in the drivers seat, and back on top.
Learn the real game.
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@therealgame·5dThe deep inner work I just wrote about is why people invest in my coaching.
Because I'm not a here's an opener dating coach.
I'm a let's change your entire life FOREVER dating coaching.
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@therealgame·5dThe Nice Guy Syndrome: Can You Actually Fix It?
Almost every single man struggles with nice guy syndrome, and most are completely oblivious to it.
And there is often the question of - can I reverse this?
Can I actually go from a nice guy with women to a playful killer that creates PRIMAL desire?
Or am I predestined to this life forever? Is it just who I am? A really good guy?
To put it simply - you can genuinely become anybody you want to become.
Including but not limited to, a not nice guy with women.
So my answer is YES, and here's how:
We define being a nice guy by doing specific behaviors towards women.
Often including high financial spend, acts of service, verbal validation, amongst other things.
90% of your nice guy behaviors are formed from your subconscious mind telling you to do them.
Your subconscious is your conditioning, which forms your mental model of the world and your lens of perception.
Both of which are OPTIMIZING for you to attain our critical human needs - we all have these.
There are several, but the most top of mind ones with women are significance, certainty, connection.
Two other pillars that form your subconscious are your beliefs and identity.
Beliefs about yourself, dating, women, etc.
Identity is sense of self and who you identify as.
So here's how it works:
EX: meet a cute girl at the gym, you get contact info (NICE GUY KICKS IN), you invite her to an expensive dinner, as a result, you get the HR text, opportunity gone/no desire.
Why did you feel inclined to be a nice guy and do this?
NEED - her to see you as significance
BELIEF - she won't see me as that if I don't spend money (insecurity about intrinsic self worth)
IDENTITY - I'm a good man, a gentleman, and I do good things for people
When you bundle this together - it guarantees before that turns women off.
Mind you, this is 1%, if that, of the totality of how deep inner work can truly go (number of beliefs you have, needs, your different identities and what shaped them, etc).
So how do you fix this nice guy pattern?
Well - our needs are going nowhere, we all have them.
It's our mental model of attaining our needs that must change.
BELIEFS - we can change these by locating the origin, and changing the perception and emotional resonance of said belief.
IDENTITY - we can change this, and we must on a mind/body/soul embodiment.
And to clarify - there is no short cut to doing this.
Imitating what you think I would do might help in the short run, but longterm you can't run from your subconscious, you can only reprogram it.
J - TRG
P.S. Made a Youtube about this exactly, The Nice Guy Syndrome: Can You Actually Fix It? https://youtu.be/0fZKSOYWl10