You said no. Your child protested, you held it for a while, and then you gave in to make it stop, or you raised your voice and felt terrible afterwards. The Steady No is a self-guided workbook for that exact loop. There are no calls, sessions or messages: you work through it on your own, at your own pace.

You get one 26-page PDF workbook: a Start here page, a pocket phrase card with a worked example, a safety page for when it is more than a tantrum, five short weekly modules (Notice the Power Struggle, Get Clear on the Limit, Hold the Limit Through the Tantrum, Reset After the Hard Moment, and Trust Your Steady Response) and 15 printable worksheets in module order, three per week: a moment map and limit tracker, one limit and one clear phrase, a steady phrase card, a reset sheet and repair phrase, and a phrase planner for bedtime, transitions and ending a favorite activity.

It will not make tantrums stop. It gives you short words to say, a steady order to follow (say the limit, say what they feel, stay close) and a way to repair after a hard moment. It is parenting language and practice, not medical advice.

7-day full refund if it isn’t useful to you.