Your toddler is 1.5 to 4, the baby is coming (or just came), and you have minutes, not reading time. This kit gives you the exact words for the seven moments every family hits: telling them, the night you leave for the hospital, the first meeting, feeding-time demands, regression at bedtime and the potty, the day the toddler hits the baby, and the lines you say to yourself when both are crying. Each script card has what to say, what to do if they push back, and one short note.

With it: a 4-week routine planner built on three anchors a day (ten minutes one-on-one, a job, the same bedtime steps), a big-sibling job chart so your toddler gets a role instead of a rival, and a one-page red-flags sheet that tells you when to call the pediatrician or your own doctor, with the 988, maternal mental health and Postpartum Support International lines.

What you get: a 16-page printable kit (start-here page, a pocket page with the first line of every card, 7 script cards, a 4-week planner, the job chart, red flags) plus the 51-page companion guide on why the scripts work, in the Steady Limits voice. Warm, plain, no lectures, no bribes, no promises of results. Printable PDFs; use on a phone too. Full refund within 7 days.