Welcome to The Blessed Recovery Life is a gentle on-ramp for wives and families navigating the chaos of alcoholism. In Paola Paz’s hope-filled voice, this guide helps you breathe again—naming the family disease, grounding you in Scripture, and showing practical first steps that restore peace.

Inside you’ll find:

A note from Paola: you’re seen, not alone, and deeply loved by God.

Safety first: clear counsel and hotline info if you’re in danger.

The 4 C’s of Alcoholism: I didn’t cause it. I can’t control it. I can’t cure it. I can contribute to it. Release shame, stop rescuing, and let God be God.

Good news for weary hearts: it’s okay to love an alcoholic; recovery can begin with you; joy is possible whether he’s drinking or not.

Your first 30 days: six simple actions—meetings, an open AA visit, gratitude journal, read to understand the disease, pray honestly, get a battle buddy.

Find your people: Al-Anon, Alateen, CODA, ACOA, Nar-Anon, Celebrate Recovery, Catholics in Recovery (in-person & online).

Scripture & story: how God met Paola with peace before the miracle, and why there’s hope for your home, too.

This isn’t pressure to fix anyone. It’s permission to heal—with Jesus, community, and practical tools that turn chaos into calm.