You don’t need to be a writer. And you don’t need to find words profound enough to match what this person meant to you.

You simply need to help the people gathered remember them.

“I Don’t Know What to Say: Eulogy Guide” is a gentle, practical workbook for anyone who has been asked to give a eulogy and doesn’t know where to begin.

Instead of dropping you into a blank template, the guide starts with your memories.

You’ll remember the phrases your loved one always used. The things they did without thinking. The stories everyone recognizes. The ordinary moments you would give anything to experience again.

Then you’ll turn those memories into a simple, personal eulogy using a five-part structure:

PERSON → PICTURE → PROOF → LEGACY → GOODBYE

You’ll also prepare for the part most public-speaking advice ignores, actually standing up and saying it while you’re grieving.

What you’ll receive is a 16-page digital workbook with guided memory prompts, a simple five-part eulogy structure, help navigating complicated relationships and emotion, a 30-minute rehearsal guide, printable lectern preparation, and a five-question emergency version for when the funeral is tomorrow.

This isn’t a collection of generic eulogy phrases. It’s a way to find your words for your person.

You don’t need perfect words. You just need your own.