Peace used to feel like the silence before a bomb went off.
I spent years thinking my chaotic home was just "passionate." I thought the constant drama, the sudden fires, and the perpetual state of emergency were signs of how much we cared.
I was wrong.
It took therapy and another two years of heavy lifting to realize I was just surrounded by chaos-ticians. These are people who use drama to keep you off-balance so you don’t notice how much you’re shrinking. They don’t know how to exist in the quiet, so they set the curtains on fire just to see you run for the extinguisher.
Breaking the pattern means realizing that peace isn’t a threat: it’s the goal. You don't have to live in a five-alarm fire just to feel alive or "loved."
I’m Virginia McConnell, a relationship wellness coach specializing in narcissistic abuse recovery. I help you stop the cycle of choosing partners who need a crisis to feel a connection.
Ready to stop managing the chaos?
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