You're not behind. You're answering the wrong question.
Most students I talk to aren't lost because they lack options. They're lost because they keep asking "what should I do with my life?"
That question is too big. It never ends. So you scroll, compare, and freeze.
Try these three instead:
What am I willing to be bad at for 90 days? Skill comes after reps, not before.
Who do I actually want to be around? Your next environment beats your next plan.
What would I do if I couldn't look impressive? That's usually the honest answer.
Pick one. Write it down. Do something small on it this week.
If you want the full framework I use with students, I put it in The Next Step.