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Wesley murangiriProfile picture@goldenelite·Apr 14

The 3 questions I ask everyone who says they feel "stuck"

Most people who come to me say the same thing: "I feel stuck."


But "stuck" isn't actually the problem — it's a symptom. After hundreds of conversations with people going through career pivots, breakups, burnout, and everything in between, I've found that 3 questions cut through the noise faster than anything else:


1. "What are you tolerating right now that you know isn't working?"


Not what's wrong. What you're choosing to keep around even though it drains you. The answer usually comes fast — and that's exactly the thing to address first.


2. "If you had to make a decision in the next 48 hours, what would you choose?"


Overthinking kills momentum. Most people already know what they want — they're just scared to commit.


3. "What would the version of you from 5 years ago think about where you are now?"


Sometimes you realize you've come further than you think. Sometimes you realize you've been coasting. Either way, it gives you perspective.


If you're going through a major transition right now — career change, relationship ending, life feeling off — I help people navigate exactly this. No fluff, just honest guidance.